tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post1687061881858544753..comments2008-01-14T16:29:59.334-05:00Dan Shanoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15304453655738315133noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post-21679764154676921002008-01-14T14:03:00.000-05:002008-01-14T14:03:00.000-05:00From my past experience, I believe that any child will go through a period of self-exploration. This time for me was in high school. <BR/><BR/>I, embarrasingly enough, grew up a Duke fan. My dad hated Dean Smith. However, when I started looking into colleges and deciding what school fit my goals, Carolina was the best. I had absolutely no desire to even apply to Duke. <BR/><BR/>Although my father brought me up a dookie, I appreciate the fact that I was brought up a sports fan. It provided a closer bond between my dad and me, and I can also hold my own with almost anyone in a sports' conversation. <BR/><BR/>I must warn any parents of little girls though. Guys do not always want to date the sports girl.Janie_Wilcoxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11531331373769883768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post-71654027621162208862008-01-06T19:56:00.000-05:002008-01-06T19:56:00.000-05:00Not a bad way to kick off '08 Dan.Jibblescribbitshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17833352311064492403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post-64658198091591462062008-01-04T14:46:00.000-05:002008-01-04T14:46:00.000-05:00Dan, I truly don't think that short of brain-washing, water-boarding, or any other form of torture, that Gabe will become a fan of FSU or Georgia. After all, I spent an entire year of graduate school at FSU and managed to maintain my Gatorhood! Of course, assuming that he goes to college at an institution such as Johns Hopkins :-), he can easily be a fan of their athletic teams, as well as the Gators!!birdhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06089995293849314248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post-44112832926729800362008-01-04T14:43:00.000-05:002008-01-04T14:43:00.000-05:00I truly feel that kids that grow up in sports-fanatic homes will more than likely become fans themselves...whether it is for the team(s) that the parent(s) root for or not. If football is on the TV every Saturday and Sunday afternoon, and mom and/or dad are cheering and screaming at the TV, chances are the kids are going to do the same. At least that is how I grew up, and so far, my three-year-old son is following the same path. I have posted before that he is already loving all things Ohio State, thinks he Grady Sizemore when he's playing baseball, and wanted a "real" football for Christmas. Who knows though, he could end up loathing all things associated with sports as he gets older. I highly doubt it, but you never know!<BR/><BR/>He definitely isn't going to start wrestling until he's older though.Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11071405721004631626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post-90856760158991448922008-01-04T10:28:00.000-05:002008-01-04T10:28:00.000-05:00<I>My favorite part is the way the Red Sox "die-hards" mocked the "Pink Hats"... as if ANY of them gave a rat's ass about the Patriots until the Pats won their first Super Bowl. If they say they did, they're lying or fooling themselves.</I><BR/><BR/>So you're saying my Craig James jersey from 1985 (when I was 10) is not a valid testament to my lifelong fandom of Boston teams, including the Patriots? Or crying silently on my parents' bedroom floor so as not to wake them after watching Game 7 of the '86 World Series on their TV? Or how about joining the local hockey league when I was 5 (five!) because I loved Bobby Orr, Terry O'Reilly, and all the old Bruins. (All fandom, by the way, that was passed on to me by my grandfather and great uncle- a sportswriter here in RI in the 60s/70s no less.) Incidentally, my dad grew up a Giants fan (started before the Pats were established). Did I follow him? No. Stuck with my Pats and Sox and Bruins and Celts.<BR/><BR/>I agree the "die hards" and "Pink Hat" dichotomy is absurd and need not be recognized. But don't mock Boston fans in aggregate over it. We "purebreds" are here too. And my son (4) has started to follow the teams too.Jingoisthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01269679565181077961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24495557.post-57521008973102819352008-01-04T10:13:00.000-05:002008-01-04T10:13:00.000-05:00While the surface detail of the question is sports, the meat of it is much deeper.<BR/><BR/>How does a parent react when their child rejects their values? That can be sports, fandom, or anything else.<BR/><BR/>It's possibly the toughest thing a parent can face. Part of raising children is teaching them your personal values in regards to both important stuff and trivial stuff. We don't raise them that way expecting them to reject those lessons, in essence rejecting us.<BR/><BR/>I think that's why many people have a problem when their children make different decisions than they'd like. They see it as their child rejecting them, when it's really the child asserting their own identity, it's them becoming them.coachhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15726330762939816788noreply@blogger.com